Dallas
Mayor Mike Rawlings is trying to put a stop to domestic violence in the city,
and it's long past the time someone did.
The
mayor says we live in a country where we disagree about almost everything, and
he's right about that. We argue about gun control... birth control... the money
our government spends... and the taxes we pay.
We
disagree about the religion we choose (or no religion at all). We even argue
with people about the people they choose to love.
But
as the mayor says, how can we argue or disagree about this:
Dallas
police Chief David Brown says his officers handle 13,000 domestic abuse calls
every year.
Thirteen
thousand.
Every
year.
And
imagine how many women are too battered or too scared to even call.
My
dad hit my mom once (at least only once that I ever knew about), but he broke
her nose. My dad was a big man, a truck driver with huge arms and one of the
strongest men I've ever known.
But
never has such a big man looked so small in the eyes of a little boy.
We
need to change the culture of domestic violence. I've laughed at the jokes;
I've told some of the jokes; I've seen the T-shirts some men wear.
But
it's not funny.
It
never should have been funny.
And
it's time we change.
Just
like we stopped the jokes about drinking and driving; just like we changed the
culture about smoking the cigarettes that kill so many; we can change this,
too.
I
know it's not popular to quote liberals in Texas, but former Sen. Ted Kennedy
said, "We know the future will outlast all of us, but I believe that all
of us will live on in the future we make."
And
we start making that better future now.
We
make a better future for our moms and our wives... better for our sisters... a
better future for our daughters and granddaughters.
We
have been quiet too long, saying, 'It's none of my business' when it's
everybody's business.
It is
a blight on our city that has no boundary. It knows no color. It's a problem in
some of our poorest neighborhoods, and a problem in the richest neighborhoods
as well.
Real
men... who are gentlemen... don't hit women.
Real
men... who are gentlemen... we need you to join us and stand up now.
We
stand together Saturday, March 23 at Dallas City Hall to say we won't stand
quietly by anymore; we won't condone it anymore; we won't look the other way
anymore; we won't defend you anymore; we won't listen to your excuses anymore;
and we will not accept it any more.
Let's
join together and raise our voices together as we tell every man in our city,
every young boy who will soon be that man — it stops today.
We
change the culture of domestic violence.
We
change the future.
And
we live on in that better future we make.
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